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But you know you rejected your culture a long time ago. You know you refused to speak Chinese & you remember calling your mother’s food “disgusting.” It’s fucked. It clicks. It’s a race to reclaim everything you’ve hated about yourself. For the 1st time, you want to be Chinese.
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You’re 25 years old. You see a movie with an all-asian cast at a screening and for some reason you’re crying and you can’t stop. You’ve never seen a cast like this in Hollywood. Everyone is beautiful. You’re so happy you’re Chinese.
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Back in middle school, I was just chatting with my Asian American friend in Chinese during lunch break. A bunch of girls came up to our table and started harassing us for speaking Chinese. I never felt so embarrassed to be Chinese until that day.
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I tried my best to act less “Asian” and more “American” around people (including other Asians) in hopes that they don’t look down on me.
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I’m half Indian. I remember when I was like 7 my friend’s dad told me I couldn’t play with her because I was Indian. I remember being told in the 5th grade by some boy to go back to my own country. I remember my white grandma telling me my Indian grandparents were going to hell.
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@Neena Hingorani:
I always told my dad that I didn’t want to visit India and that I didn’t like Indian food. I always rejected the Indian culture because I didn’t want to be different. And now, at 20, I feel so stupid for doing it
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Any advice for immigrants parents that could help their kids avoid some of what you felt? Thanks for sharing your experiences. Oh, watching the movie on Sunday.
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@Raghu Angadi:
Yes. What I meant to ask is what can I as a parent do or say so that my kid feels comfortable with herself if she finds herself one side or other side of two cultures or some where in between.. and be confident that’s ok.
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This thread is so important, I can’t stress it enough. It’s so important to embrace your culture and who you are and with more and more movies like these, it’ll be easier for people to feel more comfortable with who they are and where they come from.
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I am so sorry there are such insensitive assholes in the world. Even young ones. It starts at HOME. Mommy and Daddy should teach humanity before school starts. 'People are different- yet the same and that makes life cool and interesting'. Its not trigonometry!
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